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Dear Polly. I am a year-old woman who grew up in a toxic, hksband, dysfunctional home. Very poor. Married a narcissist when I was 20 years old, was abused by him, had children with him, and was cheated on by him for 20 years.

It did not matter how I gave my heart and soul to that man, everything about me was wrong. Shortly after I divorced, I met a man ten years younger who I believe m a soul mate. He loved me better than any man of my entire very shortly single life. Better than any person of my entire life.

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Rrelationship SAW me. We dated two years. Though I never walked their line or kissed any proverbial ass, oh hell no. Breaking up with him was like a crime against nature.

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Oh how we had danced together!! That was over a year ago.

Married housewives looking hot sex Hays After seven months of being in an actual and then just emotional fetal position, I continued therapy and adopted a radical self-love program for the first time in my entire life.

I feel I am better. I have been Looking for a casual relationship me n my husband off and on for seven months. In that time I have only met two men who stir a passion in me. The second man who was super-excited about me in the beginning was relationshjp pretty concerned all along about the distance, as we live 2. He was incredibly kind and exceptionally respectful and communicative about where he was at. We said good-bye, but then I reached out to him a couple of days later.

Now he wants only to see me when he travels through my town, which he does every few weeks. He wants someone local.

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I guess my question after all this is: Am I compromising my dignity if I see him on the rare occasion? But I like him. No chitchat. I just want to eventually enjoy love and fidelity. My childhood and marriage were full of trauma and grief.

Hoping for Enduring Love. Dear HFEL. Second, he broke up with you, and you reached out two days later. The problem is, the second you mind a little bit, you will wonder: Is this logistical? Is he actually not that into it? Is he protecting himself?

Or does he just want the good sex without any emotional attachments? Is that part of his permanent emotional landscape, actually?

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And how do I feel about any of those possibilities? This is an impossible, neuroses-inducing trap for any woman. Men tend to tell elaborate stories about their circumstances and yours and timing and the phases of the moon, but the truth is simple: You are someone who goes all in. You know this. It also changes the nature of your time alone. But being alone might be exactly what you need, in the absence of an all-in relationship.

And you care Looking for a casual relationship me n my husband passion and respect, a lot. Congratulations on landing here!

And once you let the motherfucker swing by and grab a Ho Ho, guess what? You are nothing but a J Ho to him. I say this as someone with years of experience packaging myself as a quick and easy convenience food, sweet and empty, for every nice-seeming-but-ambivalent guy within shouting distance.

I did not make it difficult on anyone, ever!

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Do you want napkins with that? I knew that I was worth a lot — at least, I knew that some of the time. Loiking I always told myself a story about how few men were around. I had to work with whatever I could find. It took me out of my own life and my own head. But I settled.

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I settled for really nice, polite, sweet, good guys who were otherwise not that interesting or even that interested. Casuxl seemed like enough of a victory that I could recognize the selfish bad guys and steer clear of them. What the fuck is that? Someone who can actually keep up? My God, what a blessing. You need a guy you love talking with.

This guy might be smart enough for you.

But I think you need to be reminded that you are the decider here, and you have lots of choices. When I was single, I often worked hard to stay in control of reality instead of watching and listening and waiting to see what came next. Ketchup and mustard? This also explains his good behavior, beyond being a nice person: All good! I would take all of that progress to the next level by making a commitment to what you want the most: You want a serious relationship.

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You like to be completely, madly in love with someone, and half-measures feel, to you, like fear and weakness. You say it over and over in your letter! You had this whirlwind romance and you loved it, dancing in the kitchen, crying, acting out fantasies. You found someone willing to show up and give you everything he had. Step back and admit it, though: I never Looking for a casual relationship me n my husband saw myself that way, but the second I realized it, it changed everything.

I was always worried that I was too picky, because I Mellen WI cheating wives judgmental and impatient in most areas. My biggest danger was settling. I was a settler. So I changed my tune. And that, my friend, felt really goddamn good, down deep in my bones.

My scarcity mentality flew out the window. I loved being single.

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I loved feeling so strong and alive and good in my skin. It was so relaxing. They can afford caual luxurious seven-course meal! They can show up for meal after meal, listen forever, just for a kiss!

All of that fawning is tough to take seriously, rflationship. Trust your feelings and protect yourself. Take a Sharpie and write it on your forehead. If you feel conflicted and sad, listen to that. Rehearse your exit strategy in advance. Have empathy for men when appropriate. I feel terrible about the lies that men are fed by our culture, and how it keeps them alienated from their own complexity.

But you also need to let it go. The men of the world are not your husgand puzzle to solve. Let them eat Hostess CupCakes! You own the best restaurant in the entire fucking world, five stars, lines around the block, and if you want to close the goddamn doors and savor every bite all by yourself, you can do that.