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For those who aren't familiar asiwn the Cantonese term, it literally translates to "big girl," "chubby," "porker" You get the gist: Hating on fat people and worshipping unachievable body goals is nothing new to Western cultures, but it's a totally different ball game when it comes to east Asian families.
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For those who don't know, this annual Looiing is the Asian equivalent of Christmaswhere millions head home to spend time with their families and have multiple big banquets. It's meant to be Looking for a chubby asian version of the most wonderful chubbg of the year, but for many women, it's a time of familial weight heckling and an endless barrage of "why aren't you married yet?
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The Looking for a chubby asian members of my family would look me up and down to examine me and tell me that I'd gained a couple of pounds and that I definitely need to eat less rice. The sad fact is I know I'm not alone in this story. Many other Asian girls have suffered the same taunts from their nearest and dearest.
Selina Tan, a year-old British Malaysian-Chinese production assistant, knows this all too well. Say if I sat on someone's lap they would make exaggerated faces because of my weight.
The same goes for London-based Thai content manager, Fong Chau. Her family even held a secret family summit about her size. That caused its own drama—refusing your mother's food is a big deal.Housewives Wants Sex Tonight Marion Wisconsin 54950
I was probably doing it on purpose to get at her because she called me fat. Weight issues have always come with huge social stigma in east Asian and diaspora communities.
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In an article for Stylist magazine, Beijing journalist Yuan Ren highlights how this type of family-based, tough love attitude creates an obsessive beauty standard where everyone ends up looking like pale, petite, and stick-thin clones. Asia's obsession with thinness stems from chubbu reasons but—as in the West—one of the main reasons is a media-driven culture that sees young girls idolize perfect pop stars and skinny celebrities from an early age.
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According to Dr Terry Loong, Looking for a chubby asian, a Malaysian integrative cosmetic and skin doctor at the Dr Terry Clinic in London, "There is a lot of pressure in Asia to have fair or light skin which represents youth, wealth, fertility and success. Asian women may even potentially go through dangerous surgery such as facial bone slimming and bone lengthening to increase height.
In search for a quick-fix solution, I too have jumped on many a weight loss bandwagons including extreme juice cleansing, diet pills, herbal laxative teasand even starving myself to the point of passing out. For Dr Loong, the comments got so serious that it lead to radically changing her body.
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The huge pressure to be chubbby doesn't just come from family catcalling.
Shirley Lau, a British-born Chinese 22 year old tells me that coercion comes from all sides, including friends, boyfriends, and Asian media. I don't think I've ever come across an advert in Asia that promotes the message to love yourself.
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According to Dr Lim, this is down to a chbby problem. Even Asian women born and raised in Western countries like me aren't exempt from the influence of these attitudes. When I was young, I was constantly told that if I didn't stop eating, I would never marry and would grow up to be fat and alone. Looking for a chubby asian idea of beauty standards are still skewed by these subliminal threats.
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Dr Loong tells me that when she was growing up her father would openly criticize others in front asoan her. It definitely put a fear in me as child growing up that fat is bad and I must never become fat! In my experience, Asian families tend to be more upfront with one another than Looking for a chubby asian families of my white peers—they disregard feelings and focus more on strict discipline.
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America and Europe still has a long way to go when it comes to oppressive beauty norms, but at least a conversation is beginning around taboo subjects such as weight, periods, and body hair.Fuck Girls In Culpeper Fl
By comparison, the body issues and beauty standards of Asian cultures are seriously lagging behind. Recently, we seem to be taking the right steps towards more achievable beauty standards—even if they are baby steps, like Korea's first plus-size model Kim Gee-yang launchinga fashion magazine for plus size Asian consumers that aims to promotes healthy saian image.
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As Dr Loong puts it, "It's important to Looking for a chubby asian open conversations and communication with our Lookinng girls and boys about their self-worth, self-confidence and body concerns.
So, until Asian beauty standards start catching up with the times, I'll put my fay mui middle finger up and ask for another bowl of rice. Kung hei fat choyeveryone.
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When Chinese New Year rolls around, Asian women like me know it's open season for family comments on our weight. But a much deeper cultural problem lies underneath the fat jokes, and it's driving some to crash diets and disordered eating.